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Racing toward love
When my motorcycle-racing boyfriend proposed on my 40th birthday, I couldn't tell if it was a joke or a dare.
By Ann Bauer

Strapped!
How the bridal beast is bankrupting the lowly wedding guest
By Sarah Elizabeth Richards

Mommy Diarist
Introducing a new mother --   and a new chapter of IndieBride
By Elise Mac Adam

The Guilty Bride
How can a girl raised to stand on her own two feet learn to stand by her man?
By Rachael Combe

Introducing … IndieEtiquette
Our new column will help you solve all of the sticky, prickly and downright embarrassing predicaments associated with The Big Day.
By Elise Mac Adam

Bride, Unhinged
I know with all certainty that my fiancé is the one for me. So why, three weeks before our wedding, am I falling to pieces?
By Juliet Siler Eastland

When Wedding Dresses Attack!
By Eve Simon

Book Review: The Artful Bride
Salvation for the crafty bride
By Heather Moylan

The B-word
People toss around the term "Bridezilla" and think it's cute. I'd argue it's demeaning.
By Elise Mac Adam

My Best Friends' Weddings
I used to relish being single. But now that everyone around me is getting married, I'm not sure I want to be quite so independent.
By Michelle Hainer

When Bachelors Go Bad
How my fiancee ruined our marriage before it even began
By Gayle Cole

O Brother Wed Art Thou
My little brother's getting married. So why is everyone worried about me?
By Rebecca Traister

The Mythology of Marriage
Our wedding stories end with 'Happily Ever After'. Then comes real life.
By Michelle Chalfoun

A Marriage of My Own
Thirty years after the women's movement, I treasure the choices my mother never had.
By Kate Epstein

Why I Popped the Question
Does choosing to get married make me a traditionalist or a revolutionary?
By Beth Broome

My Wedding, My Way
The secret to a great wedding? Decline all parental help, serve deli sandwiches and insist that your guests dress in their Vegas best.
By King Kaufman

Happily Ever After
Could flirting be the key to a successful marriage?
By Lori Leibovich

Am I Really That Single?
There's nothing more soul-crushing than being the only unmarried woman at a wedding shower.
By Ariel S. Leve

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Fun fact


    BOOK REVIEW:
         “The Artful Bride”

by April L. Paffrath and Laura McFadden
Rockport Publishers, 127 pp.
$22.00

Reviewed by Heather Moylan

SPRING 2003 | My fiance was still on one knee when I started plotting our wedding crafts. The dream-sequence stars me, cross-legged in the living room, singing along to "The Sound of Music" soundtrack, a circle of beaming bridesmaids at my side. Effortlessly, cheerfully, we label save the dates, design place card holders.

My first flattery as a married woman would be for my inimitable style and creativity. "Yes, Mrs. Palmer," I'd chuckle softly at the reception, eyes cast downward to imply humility, "In fact, I did hand bead the driveway." But the banal details of wedding planning soon eclipsed my glue-gun fantasies.

Must it be so?

No — praise be to "The Artful Bride." Author April L. Paffrath and designer Laura McFadden°s missive is incentive enough: "The people you invite to your wedding know your sense of humor, your charm, and even your kooky taste in music. Don't be tempted to bury those qualities under layers of standard wedding elements."

Amen.

The book is tailored for brides desperately seeking a creative outlet in the maelstrom of wedding planning madness. Of course, the DIY route also saves you cash.

There are how-tos for every part of the process. The four sections cover "Correspondence," "Gifts & Goodies," "Ceremony Details" and "Reception & Décor." Not one of the 30 projects is cheesy, hokey or chintzy. Instead, the ideas epitomize funky chic.

Projects include:

Say It with Flowers (Pansy Envelope Invitation) — Expensive engraving, outer envelopes and inner envelopes be darned — these cute and low-cost little packages get the job done, in style. Materials include vellum, pansy stickers, ribbon and creative paper. You°ll layout and print the text yourself and also handle assembly.

Knickers with a Twist (Personalized Panties for Your Pals) — Made out of undies (obviously), patches (i.e. Girl Scout, gas station attendant) and embroidery thread. Ideal as bridesmaid goodies.

Practical Princess-Wear (Subtle Tiara) — A must-have because, as Paffrath puts it, "everyone should have a tiara to wear to state dinners, shopping, and baseball games." Plus, the supplies (craft wire, head band, clear crystals) are inexpensive. The final product is sweet, and simple.

Hunka Burnin' Love (Photo Votive) — Personalize a pillar candle centerpiece with your own beaming mugs. First, copy some photo strips from a photo booth onto vellum (at a local copy center or, if you have a scanner, at home). Measure to the candle's height and then affix with a glue stick. Make a bed out of uncooked rice at the table°s center.

Tiers of Joy (Wedding Cake Card Box) — "Think outside the box," they tell you, "or at least re-shape it." Cover three hatboxes with decorative paper and dress up with sequins, rhinestones and, the icing on the cake card box, a black-and-white mounted photo of a bride and groom (you two, or ancestors, or some unsuspecting cut-out couple). You can change the style with different paper; use buttons instead of rhinestones for a more Victorian look.

Sticky Guest Book (iZone Booklet for Each Table) — Put faces to the names, giving each table their own hand-made guestbook (better than the "beautiful and boring" stand-alone says Paffrath) and, even better, iZone cameras and adhesive film. Outline a frame for the photos and a few lines for the message — they'll take it from there.

The Ties That Bind (Japanese-Style Photo Album) — A step up in both expense and effort. Materials include a drill, bone folders and c-clamps. You'll also want your wits about you; these diagrams are not exactly easy, at least at first glance. But the instructions are thorough and the end result is chic, giving tough competition for similar store-bought books that go for $60 and up.

"The Artful Bride" holds your hand through every measurement, cut and fold; that help is crucial for the tougher projects. They also offer templates, a supply resource list and the equally handy guide to "Crafty Ways of Finding Help." ("Let's face it, it's a basic tenet of friendship to offer help. That's how it should be. But that doesn't make it easy to call in the offer.")

If ever there was a way to fit some distinctive style — and monkey wind-up toy name cards — back into your wedding, this is it. Highly recommended for crafty Indie Brides.

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Heather Moylan is a freelance writer and compulsive crafter in San
Francisco.

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